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Every parent wants their child to be happy, believe in themselves and move ahead in life with confidence. But in today world this is not so easy. The pressure of studies, comparison with others, the effect of social media and sometimes our own unknown things create this question in the mind of children that am I really good.
So let us know some easy and true ways by which you can make your child feel good about himself.
1. Praise the effort
When the child does any work, praise his hard work and not just the result. If he has made a drawing or played a game, then just say that you have worked very hard, it is clearly visible. From this, the child learns that his hard work matters, not just victory.
2. Listen to him carefully
When the child says something, listen to him carefully. Put the mobile aside and talk to him by looking into his eyes. This is enough to show that his words have value. He also feel that everyone pay attention on his word and he feel happy.
3. Let him do it himself
Let the child do small tasks himself like putting on shoes, serving food, getting the bag ready. If he makes a mistake, don’t panic, but say-it is okay dear, next time it will be better. This way he learns and his confidence grows.
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4. Do not compare
Comparing your child with someone else can demotivate him. Every child is different and has his own way of learning and understanding. Just say that I am proud of you the way you are.
5. Think carefully about yourself
If you say negative things about yourself like I cannot do anything, then the child will also learn the same. Instead say that it is a little difficult but I will try. This thinking will gradually come in him too.
6. Show unconditional love
The child considers himself special only when he feels that he is being loved without any conditions. Whether he makes a mistake or says something wrong, if you hug him and say I know you tried, then he learns to love himself.
7. Accept his choice
If the child is good at painting or likes to make stories, then respect his choice. When you take interest in his interests, he feels that his words and choices are important.
8. Give him a chance to think himself
Don’t give a solution every time, but ask him how this problem can be solved. For example, if he says that I am having a problem with my homework, then say let us think together what can be the way to do it. This helps him learn to take his own decisions.
9. Make the house full of love and belonging
Your home should be a place where the child can laugh and cry openly and say what he wants without fear. He should have the confidence that he is fine here the way he is and he will be understood.
Finally, a small thing
A child becomes what he thinks of himself and he thinks of himself what he feels at home. If you keep reassuring him that he is special, important and lovable just the way he is, then he will face the world with courage.
Conclusion
Ultimately, every child wants loved and valued. Our small actions as parents, like listening, appreciating hard work, respecting choices and showing unconditional love, form the foundation of a child self-confidence. When a child feels accepted and special at home, he can face the world with courage. So keep reminding him every day that he is precious just the way he is. This feeling will become his biggest strength.